I am sorry to hear that your daughter has gone the opposite of raw.
I got married myself earlier this year. My best friend threw me a bridal shower at her house at the end of April. (my wedding was in May)
I requested a durian, and we made a pudding out of durian and ripe bananas. We served it in little dessert glasses and it was very yummy. Most of my friends liked it and I finished whatever was left over
My friend also prepared guagamole, hummus and lots of cut up fruit and veg, plus baked corn chips. She made a vegan carrot cake (baked) which I did not have, but everyone seemed to enjoy.
Also, we asked others to bring whatever they like to share, so we ended up with a mix of raw, vegan and vegetarian finger food. Everyone was happy!
It was a small afternoon garden party, very low key, but lots of fun for me!
Good luck with organizing your daughter's party!